Are you wasting your profile? Is it readable? Does it make sense? Are you looking for the impossible, or are YOU impossible?
Take time to think about what you are saying to the real people who are taking the time to read your profile.
Remember this when creating a “worthwhile” profile on this site:
1 - Seriously think before you type. It is important to detail your expectations for a potential mate or mates. However, it is even MORE IMPORTANT to focus on what YOU bring to the table.
2 – Think of your profile like a good dinner, not a happy meal. As in, add in self goals and dreams of your own personal future.
3 – Are you expecting potential mates to leave behind everything they know to be with you? Would you do the same for them? Be realistic. There are untold thousands if not millions of people on this planet that love/like/lust each other and do not live under the same roof, the same city, or even the same continent. Get over your requirement for immediate gratification. It cuts down your chances of finding happiness.
4 – Do NOT be shy in stating that you seek a primary partner if you want one. State it. It will make your life so much easier.
5 – Do NOT be shy in stating that you do NOT wish to have a primary partner. Like #4, your life will be so much easier if you just put it out there.
Specifically, for married/attached couples and seeking:
1 – Is it realistic to ask another partner to give everything to just you two when they ARE NOT guaranteed any financial protections at all? PS – You can start an LLC with a 3rd partner and make the “couple” home a business with access to be shared and liquified if needed.
2 – Love, Lust, Like is NOT "even" and never will be. Period.
3 – Someone within a throuple or quad or any configuration will always do more and someone will always do less.
4 – Learn to live as an individual first before seeking additional partners. YOU WILL BE LONELY with multiple partners.
In closing, if you are spending 20 seconds to fill out a basic profile you are wasting your time and the time of persons seeking someone like you. Be realistic. Be real.
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