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Can you love more than one person at a time? So can we! (PMM) is about finding others who believe in ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, equality, freedom, choice, love, sexuality, sincerity, hope, trust, happiness, and especially Polyamory. For more information on different forms of Polyamory, check out our glossary page.

Do you identify with any of the following?
Poly Polyamorous Ethical Non-Monogamist Ethical Swinger Polyamorist Prefer not to self identify but feel that monogamy is too limiting

Do you believe in any of the following?
Poly Polyamory Ethical Non-Monogamy Ethical Swinging Open Honest Relationships Meaningful Multi-Partner Relationships Swinging with Emotional Connections Everyone should have to right to love who they want as long as all partners are consenting legal adults

If you identify or believe in any of these concepts - You are in the right place! has been serving the Poly & Ethical Non-Monogamous community for over a decade. With an incredible "organic" membership base, we offer a network of potential friends, dates, and partners all with similar goals; Ethical Non-Monogamy.

What we mean by "organic" is that we do not buy membership lists, nor do we "share" membership lists with any other non-poly site. People who are here have registered to be here.

Are you ready to meet others just like yourself? Register here to create a free profile.

If you choose to register with PMM, you will become a "Standard Member" and be able to search our membership database, view who has looked at your profile, save favorites, send internal PMM 'pokes', and check out our active forums.

"Premium Membership" affords you all of the items mentioned as well as full access to Instant Messenger, Single/Two-player games to break the ice, live chatrooms, and internal PMM mail to other members.

For a complete description of levels of membership, please see Compare Plans.

Again, welcome to; the perfect place to find your poly mate(s).

Polyamory is, simply put, the capacity to love many. brings together all kinds of people from around the world in a web community setting.

Not only do we provide a tasteful adult environment; bringing people together for love, friendship, learning, support, and camaraderie... we are also a resource for learning about Polyamory in its many forms and nuances. The practice of Polyamory can be as unique as each of us are. PMM supports all styles, all people.

At PMM, we welcome:

  • Androgynous
  • Asexual
  • Bisexual
  • Bigender
  • Genderqueer
  • Heterosexual
  • Homosexual
  • Intergender
  • Pansexual
  • Polysexual
  • Queer
  • Straight
  • Third Gender
  • Transgender
  • Poly-friendly/curious
  • Or Any other Combination
PolyMatchMaker News

Title: Post your photo -and you could potentially get more interest!
By Abbie_Masse on Thursday August 14, 2014

Hi PMMers!

Can you believe it's almost Fall? What happened to the year?

In an effort to continually help those who are seeking out partners here on remember that most people are visual. Though you may have an outstanding biography and are clear in your intent, if you don' have a good / clear picture of yourself on your profile, the chances of a "connection" become slimmer.

Yes, it may sound shallow, but is the truth.

So, if you have an old our outdated photo - update it!

If you don't have any photo's at all - put one on your profile.

Try to avoid the "group" photos to where no one reading your bio would know which person in the image is you.

In closing, and as always, if you have any general questions about ethical non-monogamy or you want an assessment of your biography and need suggestions - send me a free PMM mail. *

Hugs to all!

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*All PMM mail sent to either Abbie_Masse or TeamPMM is free to send because they are system administrators.

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